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100% shoes off club, I sometimes even get distracted when tv & movies showcase people marching around their homes in their "outside shoes". Also "that person"; not looking to contaminate my inner space with the outside.

Appreciate this observation that when we feel safe, we take off our shoes; no need to flee or escape. Remember sharing this space with you. xo

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And I appreciate your observation of shoes on being a sign to easily flee. I never saw it that way, but it's true. I think it's also connected to the vulnerability on display when your outfit is broken. Socks are always like underwear; sometimes you're only allowed to see a bit for fashion's sake, but not the whole thing. And when you don, you're judged aka socks and sandals. lol

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